Ladies and gentleman, if a person you’re interested in says, “they’re too busy” myself included, and “hasn’t had time” they are just not that into you i make time to go for a run nearly every night, why. A convenient excuse when a woman says she is busy page 1 of 1 : i usually like to give a woman the benefit of the doubt when she says she will be very busy next week and has family coming over to stay a few days or has a work project to finish. Admit it, we have all used an excuse to get out of doing something whether it be helping out with something at work, or in our personal lives we say we’re too busy, or i have a sick kid at home. That being said, is being busy with work enough of an excuse to not text at all for a few days if you truly like someone i mean it is a legit excuse don't get me wrong but i guess if you really like someone, wouldn't you find time to text them just to say, hey i'm really busy but how've you been.
Often when i talk about being an author, people say, “with your busy life, i can’t believe you find time to write” and when i start talking about how i love to read, people will invariably say something like, “i don’t have time for reading. Being busy or shy, fearing rejection, etc are in no way reasonable excuses for indefinitely putting someone off there are rare individuals that will eventually get over that kind of thing, but in most cases it just means that their obstacles overwhelm their interest, and that they just aren't in a place in their life where you could have an in-person relationship with them. Don’t fall for the “i’m busy” excuse we’re all busy and we all have the same 24 hours nothing stands between a man and the woman he loves a man who genuinely cares for you will make time for you don’t put your effort and time on someone who only wants you around when it’s convenient for them you are worthy of being a priority.
Lw i’m in a similar situation now and i read this entire thread looking to see if you ever got your answer was he really busy or was it just an excuse out. And for lots of people, saying you're too busy to date could just be a coded way of saying, i'm not interested in dating right now, but since much of society doesn't believe that's a good excuse. And yes, when people use work as an excuse, it’s just that – an excuse plenty of busy people, men and women alike, find time for relationships that they really want to have reply link. Too busy excuse dating - how to get a good woman it is not easy for women to find a good man, and to be honest it is not easy for a man to find a good woman if you are a middle-aged woman looking to have a good time dating man half your age, this article is for you. Now, there’s a new dating cliche making the rounds: “i’m too busy for a relationship right now” but experts say it's not always just an excuse.
They will make it happen period whenever someone makes excuses, it is usually because they aren’t that interested, or they have something else going on (like another relationship) behind the scenes the bottom line: they are not available for a relationship. Being busy is a legit excuse and he sounds like he is trying but i’d date other people if you aren’t exclusive. The “i was busy” excuse is pretty popular with some men and most women have heard this excuse before the guy you’re dating tells you that he is going to call you tomorrow or that he is going to take you out over the weekend, but he never does. The only thing you are too busy for is putting work into a relationship make your message clear as to why you do not want to be with someone i firmly believe everybody needs closure, and if the only excuse you give them is that you are too busy then you are not giving them the proper closure they need. The bad thing about excuses is that you think you have the right to say that you’re busy and you expect for your partner to fully understand you and act like you haven’t ditched them before well, that is kind of delusional.
Busy is an excuse anybody who is interested can make time for you if they're really busy interested, they wouldn't want your attention going elsewhere. Dating doesn’t necessarily mean being gone all weekend it can mean being gone for an hour and half to have a nice dinner many times, people with kids use this “i’m too busy excuse” to mask the larger fear: that no one is going to want to date them because they have a kid. When dating, i noticed a trend, if the guy was too busy to do things for/with me, he was interested if i'm in a relationship that is different when my boyfriend gets busy, he cannot text, but he still makes an effort. Guys send this message more times than we care to notice instead, we make excuses we think a guy’s not calling or texting because he has a busy week with homework and classes or maybe work and friends or maybe he’s in a place with no cellphone service ah yes, that must be it but it doesn’t end there.
Trust me, it is not joyful for them to learn that you’ve been busy scrolling on instagram rather than texting them back if you had 30 minutes to collect a $2 million lottery or meet your favorite celebrity all of the sudden busy is not an excuse just as i said before – you have to rearrange your priorities. 4 reasons why you should not accept the “too busy” excuse 1) even busy people find time some jobs are more demanding than others entrepreneurs, healthcare professionals, and retail workers have some of the most stressful and busy schedules among us. “busy” is rarely a legit excuse for what’s really going on i’ve learned that most of the time when guys use this line, it’s like the universal batsignal before he goes completely rogue and ghosts. Are you too busy for dating, really, or is that your excuse for avoiding the possibility of rejection if love really is something you want in life, (and who doesn’t) read on to figure out what’s really going on and how giving priority to the search for your perfect soulmate will change your life for the better.
Tag archives: the i’m busy excuse post navigation the return of the good message unicorn (or how s learned to not gaf) posted on july 25, 2014 by s 9 when i started online dating, i was fairly preoccupied with not coming off as pathetic or crazy or desperate, to guys, to you readers, to myself, to anyone. Yes, it is a good excuse if you are tired or feeling neglected people that care need to make time for the people they care about sometimes busy people can take that for granted.